- 2009-06-29 (Mon) 19:01
- sounds good to be true?
The popular thought “Age does not matter’ is well known nowadays. There is someone I know who is being wooed by someone almost twice her age. It didn’t made me worry actually. There are questions in mind that have been floating through others. And they are talking about love between two individuals whose ages are distant. They think that it is not nice nor proper to have a relationship to man who’s too much older than your age.
I silently disagree. It is for me irrational to generalize. Not all men are alike as it is with women. We cannot just judge people with how they look. There are people who look like angels but deep within they are a*holes. It is still character that counts and it is the hardest to discern in a person. It takes a great deal of time to prove that one is worth. There are, for me, advantages for May-December, some observations about an older man in a relationship with a younger woman: more patient, more understanding, easily gives in to a stubborn woman, takes blame to stop argument, open car’s door for her, more sensitive – asks her where she wants to eat, shop, etc…of course he paids. There may be disadvantages, too, which are induced mostly by insecurities. It is important therefore that young women have to be very careful and observant.
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- jemarie 09-06-29 (Mon) 21:13
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hi..^^ im here again..
okie lets start this comment..If two people love each other, I don’t think age should be the factor..
Age is not a matter for love.. Love can occur between any kind of persons and they doesn’t depend on the age.. When you love someone who is elder than you, then it is not a mistake unless it is a lust or something else.. It’s the love you share that counts, not the year you were born in..^^ Age, or any other factors, does not matter when it comes to LOVE.. Love is a union of two souls who understand each other, who gives their best for the betterment of each other, and has respect and trust with one another.. As long as you find contentment and fulfillment with your partner, you should not worry with what the society would think.. Always remember that when you love someone there should be no boundaries, love him/her unconditionally.. So age never been a problem you have to work with your relationship to someone to be successful..^^ - Alisa 09-06-30 (Tue) 0:47
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What a nice comment..Thank you for that..i believe, too, that every relationship is different. i think as long as two mature individuals love each other despite the age gap, a relationship will tick, and it would entirely depend on them. No one can bit the mystery of Love.. So True!.
Alisa, 23
