- 2009-08-27 (Thu) 19:39
- A_D_A_N

Its cool when a friend wants to hook you up — for one thing, you can be pretty sure the guy’s not a loser. But, there’s a higher awkwardness potential it it doesnt work out, so ask your match making pal these questions first.
“Why do you think we’d be a good match?” – Many people since that they get along with both of you, you’ be into each other, too–not always true. This question forces here to articulate your commonalities. Watch out if your friend seems hard-pressed to answer.
“What’s his recent dating history like?” – If he just got out with a long tern thing or hasn’t had a girlfriend in several years, that night mean he’s not looking for anything serious at the moment. That’s fine if you want a casual relationship too. But, you should know what you’re getting into up front.
“How would you describe me to someone?” – Your friend’s response reveals the type she thinks you’d go for. For instance, she replies that your sweet and quiet..but in fact, you like a guy who’s edgy. The one she’d pick for you might be way too understated. (read:boring). It also clues you into what she’s told your prospective date about you..;)
Alisa, 23