Socialization Archive

Always look at the person in the eye. Keep your head held high, and don’t sweat. You know how that person with confidence is always the one you wish to be like, or even the one that may be intimidating you? Well, keep that poise, and the confidence WILL beam. And that is just the start of giving people the vibe that you are not to be walked all over.
Remember, that you have the right to YOUR own opinion. And cannot be hated for that. If someone gives you that attitude or feeling like they don’t like what you are doing, well, guess what, then they can go somewhere else. Just tell them “Look, how I feel is how I feel. I’m not going to hide or change that just to satisfy you. I don’t agree with you, and I’m not asking you to change. If you don’t like it, there’s about a hundred other people around here you can deal with.”
Remember, it’s your choice how people treat you. Just like how you chose to treat people. If I am rude to someone, I don’t expect them to give me their time either.

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Many people think that knowing a lot of words is a key to fluent speaking. It’s true! However, there are many people who have wide idiolect and problem with fluency. They try to learn more and more words because they think vocabulary is their problem. They don’t realize the problem is somewhere else. They always try to use exact translation of the word they want to use, but it causes that they often get stuck.

If you have same problem remember that almost all words can be swapped by some other words. If you’ll be speaking and suddenly stop, trying to get to your mind translation of some word, forget it! Try to say what you have on mind in other words.

Remember that you don’t have to know many complex grammatical structures to achieve that goal! First of all try to speak as fluent as possible (even making some grammar mistakes). Then, after making your speaking fluent, you can focus on grammar aspects.

Of course the best way of practice are English conversations with other people. it’s better to practise by standard chatting than not practising at all. Practicing it is a real key to fluent English conversation!

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The song may fade away, the melody will run dry, a friend is there to remind and keep singing a love song. A friend loves at all time, a love that is strong and the foundation of every relationship. As time goes by, it grows stronger and better that can last forever. True friendship is tested by time, molded by trials, and strengthen by faith. And a real friend is the one who will love you and accept you despite of your imperfections.

We may walk in the dark path of life, we know that we will never be alone for there is a friend who would always walk with us side by side. A true friendship is like binding your souls as one to love and to take care of one another, to strengthen each others weaknesses, to fill each others emptiness, who is always there that you can run to when no one seems to be around and to love without limitations and accept who you truly are. A a love of a friend is unconditional and patient, not demanding but gives you freedom, not proud but humble, not jealous but understanding, sincere and always forgiving.

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