2009-06-19

If someone cheated on you, it is really hard to trust him/her anymore. Everbody deserves a second chance. As your boyfriend/girlfriend says that he/she loves you and to trust him/her, give him/her a chance and dont throw it on his face. But internally dont keep your trust on him/her totally so that you wont be broken if cheats again on you. This way if he/she cheats again, you should be able to move on and no other chance for him/her in your life. But before all these think whether you need him/her really that much as he/she has already cheated on you.
You broke up with him/her for a reason, the only reason we get back together with an ex is to remember why we broke up in the first place.
In my opinion, cheaters are cheaters are cheaters. We can forgive this but it has already a deep scar in our heart and can’t totally forgive this, no matter what. It doesn’t feel good to be cheated on, and if someone can stoop to cheating on you, they don’t deserve to be with you. People do change, don’t get me wrong, but they change when they are forced to. When they have no other option BUT to change. If he/she is now back in a comfortable situation that he/she knows, he’s/she’s in the situation that he/she cheated on already. The conditions are set for it to happen again, and all the while… this time, you have lost trust and are just “waiting” for the inevitable.
Everyone deserves one chance. You can’t compare a new guy/girl to a previous, as it’s not fair to the new guy/girl.

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