2009-06-29

The popular thought “Age does not matter’ is well known nowadays. There is someone I know who is being wooed by someone almost twice her age. It didn’t made me worry actually. There are questions in mind that have been floating through others. And they are talking about love between two individuals whose ages are distant. They think that it is not nice nor proper to have a relationship to man who’s too much older than your age.
I silently disagree. It is for me irrational to generalize. Not all men are alike as it is with women. We cannot just judge people with how they look. There are people who look like angels but deep within they are a*holes. It is still character that counts and it is the hardest to discern in a person. It takes a great deal of time to prove that one is worth. There are, for me, advantages for May-December, some observations about an older man in a relationship with a younger woman: more patient, more understanding, easily gives in to a stubborn woman, takes blame to stop argument, open car’s door for her, more sensitive – asks her where she wants to eat, shop, etc…of course he paids. There may be disadvantages, too, which are induced mostly by insecurities. It is important therefore that young women have to be very careful and observant.

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