2009-08-22

Why is it so easy for other women to fall in love with a man, and for their relationships to effortlessly come together and grow…While YOU keep attracting all the men out there who are “unavailable” or who SEEM great at first, but eventually get scared and just can’t go “deeper” with you?
Is this “unavailable” thing really a problem so many men are carrying around that gets in the way of love? I want to share with you what could be a new and enlightening perspective on all this..
There’s an important realization all SMART and LOVING women come to at some point in their love lives. It’s a “light bulb” that suddenly just turns on… and when it does you instantly grow and see things with a new sense of CLARITY.
Unfortunately, most women only come to this important realization AFTER they’ve been through the pain and frustration of doing everything they can think of to “revive” their relationship and failing. It’s that when you’re with a man who is feeling
or acting UNCERTAIN with you – even if you could give him an “ultimatum” that would move things ahead to the place in your relationship that YOU WANT -
You’re in a very dangerous and “weak” position for your relationship. He’s not really making that decision based on what HE wants or feels. It’s a weak position because you really want and need a man who is truly COMMITTED to being with you on a physical, mental, emotional, and even spiritual level. Not coerced, not forced, not convinced.
COMMITTED. Totally and with all his being. Do men truly COMMIT and choose to love and become loyal, caring, affectionate, etc. just because a woman ASKS THEM?
Or does a man need to have HIS OWN REASONS for being and feeling this way?
It’s a VERY IMPORTANT question.

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