2009-09

We all know that breaking up is hard and there is more to life. But we are in such a state of mind that we feel that life is over. Here some effective pointers to help you bounce back again and build the love that you have for yourself.

Break-Up Foods: These are also known as comfort foods which act as natural healers. The most common foods are ice cream, colas, potato chips etc. Im are not advising you to binge eat or induce excess calories but these food help to provide some amount of comfort. Break-Up Books: Reading books written by experts can be comforting. There are plenty of self-help books available and seeking solace in them is a good idea. Break-Up Movies: Sometimes all you need are a pack of tissues and a great movie to provide a different outlook on an otherwise miserable situation. Break-Up Music:The last thing you want to do is go through all of your ex’s tunes when grieving. It will only make you relive those moments again. Instead shop for music that rejuvenate, relax and inspire you.

Breaking up is not the end of the world. So chin up and face the world again.

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….The partner no longer accommodates you. He/she knows you well enough to know that you will given in and do exactly what you are told.

….Running errands is always your duty because you are made to be the responsible one.

….The words “making love” becomes sex and it becomes a physiological need. He knows his moves and so do you. The tenderness and warmth becomes a process.

….There is no appreciation.

….Your presence in the room is part of life. Talking to one another requires planning and your role in their life is need based.

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In the beginning, you may just ignore him but after a while he hurts your feelings. Every time you and your partner go out with friends, he constantly keeps hitting on your girlfriends then its time to wake up. You may discuss it with him and if he stops then it is alright. But then if he starts his charms once again saying, “It’s Harmless.” It’s best to move on. If he is really committed to the relationship then he will show respect and honor the commitments. Such behaviour only shows that he is open for other options.
You may have forgiven him before for a one night stand or even a torrid affair to someone else. He promised to mend his ways but after few months, he is back in his game. For your own emotional well-being and self respect, it is clearly time to walk out and get separated for good.

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