2009-09-23

The love of your life has cheated on you and you caught him or her. You feel as if every oz. of strength that you had has been drained from your body. What are you going to do now? He or she has come back to you and told you that you are the only person that they will every love. Do you take them back and forgive them for what they have done to you?

Be realistic. Can you forgive him or her? Know that it is one of the hardest things to do. There will always be that area of your brain that tells you that if they are 15 minutes late for a dinner, is he cheating on me again. Trust once lost is a hard thing to rebuild. It may take years to get back that trust and you have to decide if you want to live your life rebuilding that trust.

A person can cause emotional uproar in your life, however if you truly love him or her and want the relationship to work and you decide that you are willing to forgive, than that is what you do. You forgive them for what they did to you.

Trust once lost is such a hard thing to get back. It may take years to return and it may take a lifetime before you realize that it has never returned. You both have to be committed to work on your relationship, it cannot be one-sided, or it will never work out.

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