2009-10-18

It really makes us wonder why the people we like only as friends are the ones who show interest in us and those we like treat us only as friends.
Why can’t we just like somebody who will also feel the same way for us?
It doesn’t always happen that way and that is the reason why people who fall in love get hurt. They allow themselves to get emotionally attached to a person and they begin to expect that they will be treated differently from the others. But more often than not, we are attracted to a person who probably wants to have us only as a friend, and nothing more. There’s nothing wrong with this, but it is sometimes hard to interpret the meaning of one’s actions. The problem lies with the fact that we have special feelings for that person, and most of the time we put so much meaning in the way they treat us, when the truth is we are just friends. We go one step ahead of the real relationship, and begin to expect something to come out. Then, we disappoint ourselves when we realize that there were no special feelings all along.

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