2010-01

Trust is letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you. Also opening yourself up to let others in on your background, problems, concerns and mistakes with the assurance that they will not ostracize you because of these things.
Trust has always been a personal sore spot for me. I often found myself in situations where I was afraid of giving trust to someone, thinking they had to earn it first. Trust was also easily lost if someone hurt me or did something to me.
When I learned to trust myself (trusting my instincts, my subconscious, and my own personal abilities), I learned that I could also trust myself to find trusting situations. I realised that all those problems I ran into, in which I felt trust became an issue, were all generated by my own initial lack of trust. When I began trusting myself, I was also able to trust my ability to avoid untrustworthy people, sense those who were trustworthy, and even trust my own actions! It’s amazing what a little-self-trust can do!

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Try and move on. Im not saying go on a date that night. But maybe in a week or two. moving is the worst part of getting over someone. Your afraid of being hurt again, you have no idea who to trust. And no one wants to start over new. But its going to happen sooner or later. its best to be open to the fact then staying home every night waiting for a phone call you know isn’t coming.
No matter what is said over the internet, or Via text message or on TV. No one has the real curse for heart break. Its your own personal feelings. People who look for help and only relay on what others have to say wont go very far. You have to pick your self up and be your own person. Its the only way to overcome sadness, and unhappyness. Goodluck everyone…

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One of the reason why people get so sentimental..It’s because memories are the only things that don’t change..When everything else does..There are things in life that you can’t hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for it..Sometimes destiny isn’t always good, it becomes playful..when you met someone you learned to love, you thought that it was destiny who thought your paths across.But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay..But only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you’ve already fallen..
It’s not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love..Some might think it’s just an excuse, some might not actually believe, some will blame you, some might be even mad at you..What they dont see is the fact that…It’s hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt..

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