2010-01-18

Trust is letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you. Also opening yourself up to let others in on your background, problems, concerns and mistakes with the assurance that they will not ostracize you because of these things.
Trust has always been a personal sore spot for me. I often found myself in situations where I was afraid of giving trust to someone, thinking they had to earn it first. Trust was also easily lost if someone hurt me or did something to me.
When I learned to trust myself (trusting my instincts, my subconscious, and my own personal abilities), I learned that I could also trust myself to find trusting situations. I realised that all those problems I ran into, in which I felt trust became an issue, were all generated by my own initial lack of trust. When I began trusting myself, I was also able to trust my ability to avoid untrustworthy people, sense those who were trustworthy, and even trust my own actions! It’s amazing what a little-self-trust can do!

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