Unpredictable Days!

Trust….

Alisa — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 15:14:54 +0000

Trust is letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you. Also opening yourself up to let others in on your background, problems, concerns and mistakes with the assurance that they will not ostracize you because of these things.
Trust has always been a personal sore spot for me. I often found myself in situations where I was afraid of giving trust to someone, thinking they had to earn it first. Trust was also easily lost if someone hurt me or did something to me.
When I learned to trust myself (trusting my instincts, my subconscious, and my own personal abilities), I learned that I could also trust myself to find trusting situations. I realised that all those problems I ran into, in which I felt trust became an issue, were all generated by my own initial lack of trust. When I began trusting myself, I was also able to trust my ability to avoid untrustworthy people, sense those who were trustworthy, and even trust my own actions! It’s amazing what a little-self-trust can do!

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Get over the boy you like

Alisa — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 11:30:39 +0000

Try and move on. Im not saying go on a date that night. But maybe in a week or two. moving is the worst part of getting over someone. Your afraid of being hurt again, you have no idea who to trust. And no one wants to start over new. But its going to happen sooner or later. its best to be open to the fact then staying home every night waiting for a phone call you know isn’t coming.
No matter what is said over the internet, or Via text message or on TV. No one has the real curse for heart break. Its your own personal feelings. People who look for help and only relay on what others have to say wont go very far. You have to pick your self up and be your own person. Its the only way to overcome sadness, and unhappyness. Goodluck everyone…

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Art of letting go..

Alisa — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 12:48:55 +0000

One of the reason why people get so sentimental..It’s because memories are the only things that don’t change..When everything else does..There are things in life that you can’t hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for it..Sometimes destiny isn’t always good, it becomes playful..when you met someone you learned to love, you thought that it was destiny who thought your paths across.But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay..But only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you’ve already fallen..
It’s not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love..Some might think it’s just an excuse, some might not actually believe, some will blame you, some might be even mad at you..What they dont see is the fact that…It’s hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt..

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MUSIC…

Alisa — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 12:38:46 +0000

Music is meant to be a joyful, delightful sensation. But unfortunately, mankind also saw that, in addition to happiness, music can also express sorrow. Sad songs have been with us for ever it seems, but with the advent of pop music, sad songs just got more prominent.
When you ask someone the question “what is music for you”, the first thing that they think is: a mixture of rhythm or dance tunes. That answer is certainly correct, but if we go deeper than that, we could find other uses for music. We could use music, for example, to concentrate more on something, to relax ourselves, or even to let our innermost thoughts and feelings come to the surface.
It is vitally important to listen to music that uplifts us. When words and music are combined, I believe they express our deepest thoughts and feelings. What we can’t understand in words, we can understand in music. Words alone, many times, can’t express the true feelings that are meant, but music and words put together can touch the hearts and souls of people.:)

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Put Other Goals On Hold..

Alisa — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 15:13:11 +0000

Many goals aren’t time sensitive, and can be put on hold. Perhaps you’d like to go back to college, but you know it’d be sensible to pay off bills and other debts first. Maybe you want to start a blog, but you also need to finish your college degree.

Although it’s frustrating to have to put off a goal that you’re excited about, it’s sometimes the best way to guarantee that you’ll actually achieve something over the next few months. You don’t need to do everything at once in order to succeed – and in many cases, future goals will become easier to tackle because of your present success.

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Cheers for Tea!!!

Alisa — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 11:05:56 +0000

Everyone drinks tea but not everyone knows how amazingly good it is for battling stress. Green and White teas in particular are extremely good for your health.
Tea is full of antioxidants and does wonders for stress levels on many different levels. One study has shown that people who drink tea are actually happier than those who do not. They are also less likely to get cancer and some other serious illnesses.
There are many definitive physiological reasons as to why tea helps stress. Chinese doctors have known it for thousands of years and now western science is backing up those claims with evidence that a cup of tea can suppress a hormone in the body that causes stress.:D

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LIFE

Alisa — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 08:38:58 +0000

We all have just one life to live. I have mine, you have yours. Whatever good fortune, or grief, comes our way, we have to move through it, and move forward. We’re here for such a short time, and anything can happen. And we all deserve to be as happy as we possibly can.

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Take a Day Off

Alisa — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 14:52:24 +0000

I have realized how important it is to take some time off. Many people are not able to take several months off from their worldly obligations; I understand that. However, most of us can and should take a day off every couple of weeks (if not more). If you can’t do that then at least dedicate a few hours of “me time”. The point is that we need time to slow down, leave the constant race, and recharge our brains, our bodies, and, well, everything!
So choose a day. Dedicate yourself to making it your day: turn off your cell phone, let your family know this is your special time, and to only interrupt if it’s absolutely necessary, etc.
Remember this is your life to explore, to make known the unknown. Make sure you take some time to stop and smell the roses. I know many of us have forgotten that beautiful fragrance.

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Fear : No Fear

Alisa — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 13:38:17 +0000

We all battle with fear. Just a few short years ago, the underlying current of my being was filled with fear, worry and anxiety. When your whole life is controlled by fear, it starts to get to you.

Fear isn’t your enemy; it is through fear and hardship that we grow the most. When you think about it, if your life was free from any challenges, it would be fun for some time, but ultimately it would get pretty boring as you skated through each day without any challenges.

Fear is the spice in our life and using it to your advantage can make the difference between being miserable and being happy.

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Live Now : Do Now

Alisa — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 20:43:19 +0000

It is the time of year where many people will attempt to develop their New Year’s resolutions. Whether you have one resolution or a thousand, wouldn’t it be a fabulous accomplishment to be able to say to yourself that 2010 was the year you stopped dreaming about accomplishing your resolutions and started to do them?

Dreaming about what you want to get done is not a bad thing, but many of us seem stuck in the days after January 1st thinking about losing weight, starting a business, or saving more of our income instead of making it happen.

REMEMBER: Live Now: Do Now

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